One of the common problems in many marriages and relationships is lack of communication. In a world where there is a spiraling divorce rate, many couples cite the reason for the failure in their relationship as being, "We grew apart and we didn't talk anymore." After several years of marriage or living together, such couples find that the initial fire in their relationship has gone out. Familiarity has bred contempt.
In modern society, where people are encouraged to talk openly about their problems and feelings, and where communication is the name of the game through the Internet and mobile phones, this idea is a real paradox. Shouldn't we be communicating with our loved ones more, rather than less? In fact, lack of communication is a side-effect of the changes that modern society has undergone in recent years.
Nowadays, where people are open to whatever they want to express, there are many ways to say whatever you wanted to. Suppressing your feelings would do nothing but to limit yourself of what you really want to do or say. There are Internet and mobile phones that can be used as a tool. Don't you find it sweet and thoughtful receiving a message from a loved one? How about a simple call from someone you have been thinking about? Modern society has offered new technology to come out in the open and express how you feel-for you to be understood and be appreciated. Time can never be a hindrance with all the technology we have. It all lies in your hands on how you can use these tools to show your love and affection.
Communicating Romantically
Aside from the gadgets of what the new world can offer to express your feelings and bloat out what you wanted to say, you can do something more than the ordinary and create a romantic communication with someone you love specifically in marriage when the both of you needs the quality time. You can set up a date for your loved one without even spending too much and have the convenience of being cozy on your own abode. It is about time to cook for your partner's favorite dish and set the table for your one of your most memorable date night.
You do not have to say it literally and bluntly say that you want to talk to him about everything you wish to talk about. You can start by preparing something for your partner that would mesmerize him and let him think about what agenda you have upon setting this up. The following are some ideas on your table setting to create an atmosphere you wish to have before talking things over:
- Make a dried flower table arrangement, consisting of romantic rose petals scattered on a cream cloth, with burgundy napkins and a bottle of red wine. Put a couple of scented candles in the middle of the table and dim the lights. Needless to say, all telephones, computers, and televisions are switched off. This meal is your time for each other. In this atmosphere, you will put the romance back into your marriage and rekindle the excitement of your dating days.
- If you feel that the above table arrangement is too intense, try something a little lighter and more fun, such as a tropical setting. Here, you would put up little cocktail umbrellas, a pineapple and tropical fruit center piece, and use a bright color scheme, such as a cream table cloth, yellow napkins, and orange table mats. Put exotic fruit drinks on the table to add to the atmosphere. The cheerful colors and sweet fruits will lighten the atmosphere, and your partner is sure to find this fun.
* Other kinds of table setting may depend to what kind of atmosphere you prefer. All you have to do is just to be creative and put some effort on setting it up. Your partner will definitely appreciate this.
Saving a relationship particularly in marriage does not need to be expensive. What is important is to get "in touch" again with your special someone and patch things up to create a stronger relationship. Open communication is one of that factors that can strengthen any ties that you have with someone. To understand and to respect each other's beliefs and opinion is a joint effort and talking these things over can make a difference. For other kinds of table settings, you may ask for an advice or do some research for brighter ideas, what is important is that you have provided your effort to make your relationship last and the willingness to save your marriage is what you are aiming for.
In modern society, where people are encouraged to talk openly about their problems and feelings, and where communication is the name of the game through the Internet and mobile phones, this idea is a real paradox. Shouldn't we be communicating with our loved ones more, rather than less? In fact, lack of communication is a side-effect of the changes that modern society has undergone in recent years.
Nowadays, where people are open to whatever they want to express, there are many ways to say whatever you wanted to. Suppressing your feelings would do nothing but to limit yourself of what you really want to do or say. There are Internet and mobile phones that can be used as a tool. Don't you find it sweet and thoughtful receiving a message from a loved one? How about a simple call from someone you have been thinking about? Modern society has offered new technology to come out in the open and express how you feel-for you to be understood and be appreciated. Time can never be a hindrance with all the technology we have. It all lies in your hands on how you can use these tools to show your love and affection.
Communicating Romantically
Aside from the gadgets of what the new world can offer to express your feelings and bloat out what you wanted to say, you can do something more than the ordinary and create a romantic communication with someone you love specifically in marriage when the both of you needs the quality time. You can set up a date for your loved one without even spending too much and have the convenience of being cozy on your own abode. It is about time to cook for your partner's favorite dish and set the table for your one of your most memorable date night.
You do not have to say it literally and bluntly say that you want to talk to him about everything you wish to talk about. You can start by preparing something for your partner that would mesmerize him and let him think about what agenda you have upon setting this up. The following are some ideas on your table setting to create an atmosphere you wish to have before talking things over:
- Make a dried flower table arrangement, consisting of romantic rose petals scattered on a cream cloth, with burgundy napkins and a bottle of red wine. Put a couple of scented candles in the middle of the table and dim the lights. Needless to say, all telephones, computers, and televisions are switched off. This meal is your time for each other. In this atmosphere, you will put the romance back into your marriage and rekindle the excitement of your dating days.
- If you feel that the above table arrangement is too intense, try something a little lighter and more fun, such as a tropical setting. Here, you would put up little cocktail umbrellas, a pineapple and tropical fruit center piece, and use a bright color scheme, such as a cream table cloth, yellow napkins, and orange table mats. Put exotic fruit drinks on the table to add to the atmosphere. The cheerful colors and sweet fruits will lighten the atmosphere, and your partner is sure to find this fun.
* Other kinds of table setting may depend to what kind of atmosphere you prefer. All you have to do is just to be creative and put some effort on setting it up. Your partner will definitely appreciate this.
Saving a relationship particularly in marriage does not need to be expensive. What is important is to get "in touch" again with your special someone and patch things up to create a stronger relationship. Open communication is one of that factors that can strengthen any ties that you have with someone. To understand and to respect each other's beliefs and opinion is a joint effort and talking these things over can make a difference. For other kinds of table settings, you may ask for an advice or do some research for brighter ideas, what is important is that you have provided your effort to make your relationship last and the willingness to save your marriage is what you are aiming for.
About the Author:
Cassia is a well-rounded author regarding putting together that ideal party. She loves making use of etiquette for proper table setting or flower centerpieces to help deliver that ideal look.
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